Challenges in a Family

In today's competitive world, the word FAMILY has its great challenges. It is not wise to compare our families to our neighbours. Yet, so many of us do this. I wish my marriage was a happy as theirs. This wrong because, first, every family is a unique relationship of singular individuals. It is impossible for two families to be identical. Second, every family has challenges which usually are not apparent to the eye of the envious neighbours.

Even Joseph and Mary, the parents of Jesus had their share of struggles. The trust which is fundamental to a marriage was challenged by the pregnancy. Joseph must have felt terrible when he had to bring his wife to a stable to have the child. Living a foreign land, away from family and traditions, was far from ideal. Still, the family made it through the difficulties of their family life for one reason only; they had great faith.

The family conquered their struggles through their faith-life. This must be the primary concern of our families.

With so many single parents out there, don't waste your energy wishing that your marriage had worked out and the children could be with both the parents. It does no good to long for that which is not probable.

Instead, single parents should focus on establishing a strong family unit. What the children need is a home not things that the neighbour's kids have.

Do your best and trust in God to do the rest.